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Showing posts with label Unconditional Love. Show all posts

Overpowering Love!

Posted in By Patty Kennedy 1 comments

Part of my daily devotional time includes reading from an Andrew Murray devotional on prayer. It has become a favorite, along with Oswald Chambers' My Utmost for His Highest, which I have read daily for probably 10 years.

Last week something Murray said moved me to tears, and I'd like to share it with you:
As the Lord Jesus pours out His love in unceasing intercession in heaven, may it be so with us on earth -- a life of overpowering love and never-ending intercession.
The words "overpowering love" hit me like a ton of bricks, and I began to weep. I am weeping now as I type this. So many people have never experienced this kind of all-consuming, unconditional, life-changing love. They are miserable to the core of their existence, and don't realize there is a way out. Families of origin can inflict lifelong angst and turmoil, and people who have never learned that life can be different simply feel stuck.

A precious friend called me last week right after I had read this devotional. Together we prayed for a friend of hers (I'll call her Emma) who professes to know Jesus, but is mired in anger and bitterness. Emma had a hellish upbringing, and never learned how to properly relate to people. She grasps for control whenever and wherever she can. She has no clue that Jesus went to the Cross so that she wouldn't have to be burdened with the baggage she carries around. She has no idea that she is free to LOVE -- even those she perceives to be her enemies.

I was stuck for decades where Emma is stuck right now, and she is the one I was weeping for when I read the words "overpowering love." I prayed that she would experience that kind of love very soon -- that God would send her someone to disciple her. She needs a godly woman who can expression compassion and care, yet show Emma that God shows us "a more excellent way" (1 Corinthians 13).

When you are overpowered by the love of God, your life changes dramatically. Suddenly things are not all about you. When you hear about someone behaving badly, your first reaction is not to harshly judge them, but to see them as God sees them -- as broken people who need to be LOVED rather than judged. When someone else unintentionally does something that hurts you, you don't immediately take it as a personal affront -- you let it go, realizing it's not worth getting angry and bitter. You don't feel the need to constantly control situations because you have relinquished control of your life to God.

Philippians 2 tells us that Jesus, though He was in very nature God, made himself nothing and took the form of a servant. We are to have that very same mindset, and "in humility value others above yourselves" (verse 3). It is contrary to our human nature to "make ourselves nothing," but we can do it when the Holy Spirit dwells within us! It is very freeing to relinquish all that we consider our "rights," and let God completely consume us with His love and His passion. When that happens, our one desire should be for Him to accomplish His purposes.

As you read this today, I pray that you will tangibly sense God's overpowering love for you. He knit you together in your mother's womb, He loves you with an everlasting love, and only He knows what is best for you. Be filled to overflowing today!




God the Manipulator?

Posted in By Nick Smith 0 comments


Alright, I’m going to warn you up front that this post is going to be a little deep.  Prepare yourself.

Several weeks ago, I posted a question on my Facebook page that I’ve been thinking a lot about lately.  The question was this: Can tough love and unconditional love co-exist or are they mutually exclusive?

The consensus was that they can and do co-exist.  A common example was the relationship between parents and their children.  A mother can love her children no matter what they do and still show them tough love in order to correct bad behavior.  In fact, the two types of love are entwined because the mother would not bother being hard on her children if she did not want the best for them.

This makes total sense to me, but I still felt like there was more at the core of this question, so I played devil’s advocate.  I asked, “If we change how we express love to someone based solely on their choices and/or behavior, isn’t that the definition of conditional?”

The basic response to this was that conditional love is not defined as HOW we love someone, but WHETHER we love them.  A child’s behavior may cause a mother to change how she demonstrates love to him (i.e. she might need to show tough love in order to correct the behavior), but she never stops loving him.

This caused me to think about the perspective of the person who receives tough love.  Wouldn’t they see it as a form of conditional love?  Maybe even as manipulation?  If you have always shown your love to them in a certain way, and then their choices cause you to act differently, it would seem to them that you require them to behave a certain way in order to receive the same level of love.  From their perspective, it might seem that you are imposing your own personal belief system on them.

At this point, I’m departing from the mother and her children comparison.  I’m thinking about two adult friends.  If your best friend started acting differently towards you because he didn’t agree with some choices you’ve been making (because he feels those choices are not in your best interest), would you feel manipulated or would you feel loved?  What if you disagreed with his assessment about whether it was in your best interest?

I think that how we feel about this issue deeply affects our relationship with God.  God also shows both tough love and unconditional love.  When He shows tough love because you have sinned, do you feel loved or manipulated?

I’ve thought about this a lot lately and I think I’ve finally come to a conclusion.  Whether you feel loved or manipulated comes down to one issue – how much you trust the judgment of the person demonstrating tough love.

When we are children, we trust the judgment of our parents.  We don’t always like it, but we trust it.  And when we’re adults, we have to decide whose judgment to trust when our judgment is in conflict with that of our friends or family.

The same is true of our relationship with God.  When our choices conflict with God’s judgment, we have to decide whether to trust ourselves or God.  When we trust ourselves, we see God as a manipulator, offering our withholding love based on our actions.  But when we trust God over ourselves, we see the truth that God loves us the same throughout; He just wants what is best for us and He knows better than we do what the best is.

"Listen to advice and accept correction, and in the end you will be wise." -- Proverbs 19:20
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